Thanks JB. Definitely working on detaching and see the validity in everything you posted. Admittedly, my biggets challenge has been letting myself get sucked in just a little bit everytime she has said that she understands that she needs to end the affair. I'm working on that part, not willing to believe anything she tells me anymore.
I'll contineu to post status updates, and definitely appreciate the advice I've found here and in the books. Appreciate everyeones support anf hope at some point I'll have some words of wisdom/experience to share with the other new members.
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)