Thanks JB. Definitely working on detaching and see the validity in everything you posted. Admittedly, my biggets challenge has been letting myself get sucked in just a little bit everytime she has said that she understands that she needs to end the affair. I'm working on that part, not willing to believe anything she tells me anymore.

I'll contineu to post status updates, and definitely appreciate the advice I've found here and in the books. Appreciate everyeones support anf hope at some point I'll have some words of wisdom/experience to share with the other new members.


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Me:44
W:44
Together 22
Married 21
S 19
D 17, 15, 15. 7
EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016
EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016
ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016
WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)