You are right, I am to close to the situation to really give great advice. We are waiting until she turns 18 to get her into a therapist. I was told the laws here due to her age would allow me and WAW to see the files of any sessions she had until then . D17 asked to wait until then. So just a couple more months, but I do think that will help her.
Thank goodness she is wise beyond her years so she is handling it pretty well all things considered. It just breaks my heart because I love her and WAW and the breakdown in that relationship seems such a waste. But I know I can't control it and I want to stay back as far as possible so as not to influence it.
I work to validate d17 and ask her questions that will help her think through it and encourage her to make decisions without my nor her mothers filter.
Today has been okay. D17 is not feeling well but dragged herself to school to take a final. Hope she is feeling better tonight
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
