Too little too late?

[CRW]

here is the rest of the conversation:

C - Jesus T, who are you? You sneak around with another guy, you spend 8k on your chest, you send texts like that, and your first born son can't stand being in the the same house as you. This is as happy as you have ever been? Good for you. Seems like you have quite the whole life, full of depth.

T - You know C, there are only two things I want from you....one you can and will eventually give me and one you can't. The first being a divorce the second being the last nine years of my life back.....
Ps: im glad you found your negativity and meanness, the whole positive outlook wasn't your style. Once again confirming my thoughts on never wanting to travel back down that road with you.

C - For some reason you feel you need to tear me down. I get that, and I'm fine with it, but don't confuse my not going negative anymore with weakness.
I've treated you with nothing but kindness the past two months, and will continue to do so in the future. I still feel love towards the mother of my children, I am not ashamed to admit that. I, however, am not nor was I the cause of your unhappiness, and if you think getting this divorce is the permanent cure to your problems, I'm sorry to tell you, it won't last. You can continue with your hurtful and mean comments, it won't break me. I wouldn't trade the last 9 years for anything. I got my kids, and married the girl I loved. I wasn't perfect, but I was good a whole lot more than I was bad.