Nice to hear from a fellow Canadian!!! Thanks for your post, it was the shot in the arm I needed. I'll check out your thread later.
I wish I could take your advice fully about the past. Unfortunately, both of us still have lots of hurt from the past. The key should be to come to terms with it - then say we are moving forward. It's funny that my crimes are unforgivable, etc but hers are no big deal.
Due to God's help, I'm not the mess I was last fall etc - I'm so much more confident than I was. I have a clear idea of what I want in a MR with her and I won't settle for less. Who know the future Mrs BigyBiz may be the winner here.
Tonight, we are supposed to pick up where we left off. She had arranged to move out this weekend. I think facing that reality has been a wake up call for her.
I've got to remember to be relaxed and fight my first response.
Anyone else - any thoughts?
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017