Yes, I agree with Doodler. Is there a possible OM in the picture? In my situation that is where the icy relationship started, as a W diverts her affection to someone else.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016