Need some help from the DB community! Crunch Time!

[cbtdad]

Acc,
No need to correct you on most of that buddy. You nailed a lot of it. We reconciled in 7/2013. We moved in 8/2013.
Which happened to be a lot closer to the OM at that time. Went from being 8 hours away to 45 minutes. I wanted to move as well and I grew up where we live now so it worked for me. W had made friends with OM friends and we would actually hang out with them
It was awkward at first, but we are actually still friends with them and even went on a cruise together.
So in the beginning the trust and transparency with me was a huge deal!! Here we were in the same city with the OM now.
As time went by it got better and better. 2014 was pretty good for the most part. There were definitely times I questioned on getting back together and whether I would ever be able to trust again. 2015 was actually really good up until around august when the EMT stuff started. After a little hiccup we actually had a great few months. I would say we started feeling distant in January of this year. I think this time around it's her pulling out flag really early before it gets like last time.
But you nailed the cycle. She even asked the MC last week. "I know what the cycle is, how do we break it?"
That's when she also said she was waiting for a feeling or a sign

Ive concluded that I am going to wait to see what MC appointment is like tomorrow. If its the same old same ole than this weekend I will inform her of my plans to move out and give us space.
It's been a month and I would say over all things a better between us. But as Ive said, I don't want just a friend. I want a wife and a partner