My first post - please be nice.

[collin]

Thanks darknes.
I need lots of fixing (as you probably can tell)

Today has been a very productive day on here, I feel like I've learned and grew a lot.

So, I'v got another question:

I went to MC once myself and once with her (well she showed up half way). The thing is MC is another one of those things where I say I'm going to do it and then I got side tracked and let the days get away from me. Then 1 week into 2, 3, so on. She even said something about it and all I could do was agree and eat crow.

She said a while back that she would agree to go to MC if she moved out. So, her going while still living at home was great! I told her I was wanting to work on me so I would go by myself until she was ready. I didn't hold up my end of the deal.

I asked her last week if she wanted to go this week, she said this week wasn't good (financially). I'm thinking of playing dumb and saying to her, I'm considering going to MC either this week or next, would you like to join? Or, Should I say, i know you said this week wouldn't be good to go to MC, would you consider going next? Or I know you said this week isn't good, I would like to schedule a day for next, would you like to join?

And, is MC beneficial by yourself?