Another week gone by... W was out of town most of last week so I had a peaceful week. She was grasping for conversation one night on the phone to which I humored her for a bit then cut her off.

Had a really good chat with a friend who shared their story of infidelity last week, it was interesting to hear it from the other side and how they reconciled. However in their case once the infidelity was discovered it ended - in most of our cases - we are all waiting in limbo while trying to move on and GAL.

She surprised me last night calling and said she would like to come to Church with us - I said that she's welcome to join us if she'd like. I'm sure this was a chance to see D, but if it gets her into Church that's fine by me. She even joined me watching a TV show later after dinner but then we both went our separate ways.

It was interesting last night she actually asked permission to come into our bedroom and has started calling it my room/my bed in conversation - this makes me feel a little sad but at least she's acknowledging the boundaries.

I have family visiting later this week, it should be interesting to see how that all unfolds.


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17