Jim, Those are some pretty crazy things your WW is doing! I guess unfortunately that's why we have the courts, to arbitrate in these situations. With your boys' citizenship I am pretty sure you have the upper hand in Michigan courts against her. Hopefully the psychologist is able to see through the issues here.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016