Oh, I forgot to mention. A lot of us start with severe anxiety (due to uncertainty), and then as that improves, depression becomes a more prominent symptom (more grief and examining the past). I only say this so you know that you are totally normal if you follow a similar path.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16