Andrew, I have been staying at my buddies house. She is wearing the pants for sure. When I do stay at the house I stay in the other bedroom anyways. I need to make a stand for sure. Today I did a 180 and put my foot down. She is leaving town, I have a bad feeling about her motives, she says it is for work..yeah right. But anyways she was asking if I would watch a baby that we have been caring for the last two and a half years, while she was gone. I said no. She has used the baby to distract from the M, and used the time she was watching him and he was sleeping to spend time with the OM. While she is gone I am moving back into the house and will refuse to leave. We are going to have dinner on our anniversary next week, which is probably not a great thing to do I know. It is just very hard to detach. I am thinking that is the night I say that I am done with the M and we need to start the D process. She knows that I know, and still continues to destroy our house. This in not the woman I knew..what the hell happened to her?
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
