Hi poschan,

I take Xanax for the anxiety. It works for me.

As the others have posted you will want to work with the MD, different meds for depression and anxiety.
Side effects also worried me and kept me from starting for over a month after prescribed. Wish I had not waited, but I think the reason for the low dose is to minimize side effects. I did not have any side effects, not even the one I wanted which was tiredness. I really wanted that so I could sleep.

My advice though is don't just count on meds alone,be sure to do the work to heal. I believe both combined have helped me.
I would recommend a DB coach as another source of help.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine