I maybe in shock but i am feeling relief. He posted some cruddy things on FB about needing to be happy and how abused he feels...etc etc...normally i wouldn't care i blocked him and his family for this reason but my S17 was asking me about it. I just told him dad is having mental flare ups and he knows enough to know it isn't true...that he knows dad loves them and that is all that matters. As for H i texted twice about an appt change this week and all i get cricketts