I definitely understand the point about the emotional divorce vs a piece of paper. But I'm not going to lie the word scares the [censored] out of me when brought up by wife. Which has actually only been once.
If you get a second to look at my situation since separation April 1st, I'd be interested in hearing any suggestions. I feel like I'm about where I expected to be this early into separation.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015