wishing,
It's so nice to come here and see that you've posted an update. Congratulations on your engagement! I'm very happy for you!

Well, your xh and the ow are still in the same place right where you left them. Nothing's changed w/them except maybe their age and weight. Oh, yeah, shoulder surgery. Yes, he wanted some sympathy from you...poor baby.

I hope he doesn't take you back to court for a change in visitation. If the kids are happy w/the arrangement as it is, then he should be too. Your kids are growing up so quickly and they sound like they are doing fine. Gosh, I can't believe it's been 2 years since your divorce. Time is flying!

I'm very happy that you and the kids are doing well and the new man in your life treats you well.

Please keep in touch and give those kids hugs for me!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.