and yes, I am becoming better. I'm not intitiating any MR talk, but I'm more than glad to if she brings it up. I also have said that I WILL help with SS, but how remains to be seen.

I mean, if you think about it, yesterday I had $950. That was mine. I said to go ahead a use it for SS apt. I'm only going to need probably $350 or so of it, so I'm GIVING her $600 and she's all mad about it. yeesh!