And sorry that ex is trying to drag you into conflict again, I wouldn't be surprised if news of your engagement stirred him into this. Funny how they don't want us but they don't want anyone else top have us either?
(Funny story - last year my boyfriend met ex while we were all helping one of my kids move into a new apartment. Ex is 56, fit, 5'10", balding, graying white guy. BF is 6'3", built like a pro athlete, African-American, looks like Seal without the lupus. While they were temporarily alone together, BF thanked ex for divorcing me and freeing me up so BF could have me! Would have loved to have been a fly on that wall.)
