I personally feel that an addiction is like an affair. Alcohol is really the OW. I hope your H is planning on getting help, and it sounds like a (residential?) recovery program would be better for him than moving out on his own.
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M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17