TabD, I am so sorry you are here - but welcome!

I personally feel that an addiction is like an affair. Alcohol is really the OW. I hope your H is planning on getting help, and it sounds like a (residential?) recovery program would be better for him than moving out on his own.


Edit - Threads merged

Last edited by Cadet; 05/16/16 01:16 PM. Reason: merged posts

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17