Originally Posted By: collin
So, instead of saying: work on my relationship with my D. It should be more like:
-watch what my D wants to watch on TV (with my D) X number of nights a week.
-find fun activities for D and I to do together (and do them).
-Help her to be more organized.
-Help her be more self-sufficient.

So, instead of saying I am going to (this) it will be I am going to do (this) and the following steps are going to be how I am going to accomplish it.

Am I thinking about it correct?


Kind of. But break it down into things you can measure. You want specific, measurable things. So that you can look bakc and say "yes, I did that."

So like these are good:
-watch what my D wants to watch on TV (with my D) X number of nights a week.
-find fun activities for D and I to do together (and do them).

But these:
-Help her to be more organized.
-Help her be more self-sufficient.
I'd be more specific as to how you will accomplish them.