You are absolutely right biz. I just hate it when she gets all sneaky. I can feel it when she is thinking about him, it's crazy. Her Mom got her to stop going out every night (I haven't told anyone what I have found yet) because she doesn't like the fact that my W acts like a teenager. I just need to stop and breathe before snooping, I don't really get anything out of it anyway other than losing sleep and worrying. Although I do feel more focused today like if I'm in a competition with OM.