Lost at the moment

[lfm]

Sandi2,

I never said thank you for your response to my post on 5/7. I do appreciate your comments and have been away from the board for a few days.

I don't really have any new developments to report, been working on GAL, been working out regularly, got 3 of my daughters out to see a movie yesterday, trying to keep busy, etc.

I am finding my WW is really struggling with what to do right now. One day she says she knows that she should end things with the OM, but the next day will talk about a future with him. I am trying to just sit back and listen, but it's hard not to engage in some of those discussions.

The thing I have found is that since I confirmed the affair, our communication has gotten much, much better, and she has been very open with me about evertyhing that is going on, maybe too open..., but I'm finding it helps my mental state because then I'm not speculating about what has potentially happened.

I know we've got a long journey ahead of us, regardless of whether we are able to reconcile or not. I have been reading some of the other posts, and it's comforting to know that I'm not alone in what I'm going through/experiencing. At this point we're still sleeping in the same bed, and plan to continue that for the foreseeable future, even if it is strictly a plutonic relationship at this point.

Thanks for listening and for the support.