My H, is trying to find his own place. i am worried that we can't financially afford this. We are already struggling with the current situation at our home. Then adding in rent for a new place and those additional bills, will we ever get thru this?

I'm freaked out that if he does find his own place that it is like the final nail in the coffin. No we are not divorced, nor has that word ever worked into any recent conversations with counselor or just our conversations. but H hasn't been staying at our home for the past 3 weeks either.

do i "support" him on this or.... there is the question.


wife of an addict
M 39 H 39
D18 D 16
Together 19 M17