The lack of arguments/conflict is something to explore further I think. Mine was a low conflict M to a 'nice guy.' I always thought he was easy going, but actually he struggled to voice his needs and resentment built. I'm also pretty conflict avoidant, so all in all not a great mix.

Since being on this site I've read that not being in conflict actually isn't good (as I thought it was..)

Hope this provides some food for thought anyway smile


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus