Thanks Acc!! I don't mean cringe in a bad way. Just that you make me really take a hard look at the situation. lol I had a chat with one of our mutual friends last night. This seems to really be about me not trusting her and smothering her. I was worried a few weeks ago that I had a WW again, which is why I snooped. Once I found out that that wasn't the case I stopped snooping. To me a WW and WAW are two different things and I needed to know what I was dealing with. If I had a WW this time again I would walk out and never look back. I couldn't deal with that again. I've decided that I will stay until next week at least until sons graduation. At that point I will make the move if that's what needs to be done. Do you think I should have the conversation like you said? Just tell her my plans to stay until next week and then I plan on moving out giving both of us the space we need?
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
