Focus on the work, not the when

[bigybiz]

Melo: I know this is the worst time and the "fix" of finding the info you are looking for seems like a good idea. You, We, Me, etc have to stop the snooping. It is just bad.

Yesterday, W and I talked about the snooping I did and how much it hurt - I told her I will never do it again. I also, said I want a trusting relationship, so I won't have to.

Maybe when you feel the need to snoop - remind yourself that you are better than that or would you be OK with telling your kids what you are doing, whatever.

We just have to say NO.

Sorry for the tough talk - but we need to hold each other accountable.