I need to find the line where I can be assertive, but not be a d!ck, cuz that's what I always end up sounding like.
This is a very fine line here. Consistency is the key IMHO. I think Sandi answered your question.
Guess I need to work on being more assertive then. In my sitch tho, I'm not sure that's the best route. We both spent a while just doing our own thing. I never had to ask for anything, I just did it. I'm trying to be empathetic now and do what's right. I feel I've done nothing but what I wanted to do, regardless of what she thought. Seems almost "more of the same" attitude to me. That's how I'm seeing it, maybe I've been blinded. Sounds like I'm not seeing something, so I'll try to be some assertive when she asks about my whereabouts. I'll report back.
I enjoy the advice, please step up with any more insight, thanks!
