I am sorry you are going through the same situation that many of us on this forum are. We are here to support.
With respect to your W introducing the kids to OM, you need to understand and communicate your boundary on this matter to your W. Please make sure you read the link that Cadet posted on boundaries.
Post your answer here for good advice from the vets to ensure your response is appropriate before you respond to your W.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
