Jjb, I have always believed that the premise of DBing is that most M can be saved and what is important is to do what works. But, even MWD concedes that not all Ms can or should be saved.
I think at the end of the day, it is we who decide when to move on. We decide what works for us. You're not thinking like a WAS. You're feeling like someone who has tried hard but is ready to start moving and healing.
The WASs leave behind in their wake a trail of destruction and we have to pick up the pieces. Sometimes I feel that we can be too harsh on ourselves.
(((Jjb)))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
