Ok, so been away for a bit and glad I came back, this place keeps me grounded. W has been at the house for 2 weeks without leaving to "meditate". We had an R talk a few days ago and she said that she couldn't forgive me for some of the things I did, talking about our relationship at work, having cheated on her 9 years ago, and not being focused on getting a house. She asked me if I had cheated with my coworker and I told her I didn't, she seemed to believe me. All the things she mentioned are things I'm changing, but they take time. I found out her phone code (OM's age and hers)and did more snooping...and found another OM?! A younger dude, from the profile pic. Someone she needs a hug from apparently. Do WW's have more than just one OM at a time?! Maybe the original OM isn't paying her enough attention, so she has to get it from OM2? Maybe it is the original OM but with a different picture?! My head hurts. Things seemed to be moving in th he right direction, but now all I want to do is move out and let her see what life would really be like without me.
