So I've decided I'm going to write my MIL a short note and include that in with the things I. Have to forward her. I'm going to do that, rather than just text or phone (I'm not sure I can deal with speaking to her at the moment, without getting upset).

Anyway, I was thinking of writing something along the lines of finding it easier for me (for the time being at least), not to hear, see or know anything about my H

I was going to add that of course, I would be very happy, as I always have been, to share a friendship with her.

Something like that.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017