Damnit now im hijacking your thread but this hit me home.
Do you really need to make your life miserable just to accomodate her when for all you know she is making plans with another man. Why make it easier for her?
Why are you giving her everything when she is not giving you anything in return or worse? Man up and hold your ground and be there for your children.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.