Good to hear from you. When you are ready can you share some of the logistics of your situation? When will ye separate? Who is moving? When is your daughter home?

Later i'd love to hear more about that two year plan.

Best wishes.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together