Mine is disciplining our S, even cleaning the house before she goes out, turning the washing inside out when hanging it on the line (small but quite big change). It's like her new self is emerging. A more confident self - only problem is that that waywardness is still there.
There's no point in having a great wayward wife is there. As Sandi believes, I need that waywardness to die before I can consider letting her back in.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.