Sorry to hear that tfish and I'm glad you already have a L in mind. Mine has been helpful throughout and it has been money well spent for me. Try to treat this part as a business transaction and be reasonable whilst standing up for you and your kids in the process.
Take care xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus