Thx Natus, she could see that I really was giving up on her. I never even brought up D. I just said that I cannot do this anymore. One of us needs to go. So I'm going.

She asked later, is there anything besides the late nights and cellphone that she must stop. I said the alcohol too. She never responded...

If my WW can give up her addictions to attention, other men and alcohol then I might consider letting her back in. But I have to state that I am serious about leaving her if she does not. Makes me cry thinking about it, but I know that it's my and my sons only chance at happiness.

She kissed me on my forehead as she left to work and said, thank you for giving me another chance. I hope she takes it.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.