Not to hijack the thread, but what you guys just wrote was exactly what I needed to hear. I've hit a rough patch as I realize my marriage is hopeless and I hold on to the memories of who my W used to be. She is not who I want to be married to anymore, but she originally rejected me and that hurts a ton. As we have all experienced, it feels like you can't go on. But, as you both state, I will go on and it will get better. Thank you.
