Juju, DB'ing isn't there to force you to fight for your M when your partner wants out. It's a method you can try if you *want to*. If you feel that your partner was right in that you weren't a good match, that you haven't been happy for a long time, I don't think DB'ing is what you should be doing.

I go back and forth between thinking that H is right and we're a very poor match and that we were both miserable and it wasn't possible to resolve, to hoping that he will 'see the light' and decide to work on it and we'll live reasonably happily ever after. But I guess it's out of my hands regardless.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17