Need some help from the DB community! Crunch Time!

[Ralph88]

I second the thoughts. My WW was already making her decisions to move on to somebody else. Pretty much nothing I could have done would have changed her views. Did I mess up after BD? Yes. Didn't matter. Everything was supporting her plan. She was 'confused' and didn't know I what she wanted... Blah blah... I gave her all kinds of room and space, and she had already been developing a new relationship. Had I stayed in the mb and house, it wouldn't have forced her to stop. It would have just been much messier and went underground. She made her choices and I'm better off not being with someone that doesn't cherish and dedicate herself to me. My kids and I don't deserve that.