I asked H the other day if he could wfh to help get our cat ready for vet tmrw, he said Maybe. tonight he said he had a meeting so couldn't help. I responded "that's fine you have a meeting, nothing you can do." He noticed I seemed irritated and I should have let it be. Long story short insinuated he rather be at work. He said goodnight and closed bedroom door. I would usually apologize but thinking leave it alone. Man am struggling checking emotions lately.