WHs do come back--Piecing--

[Phoebe]

Welcome to your new thread, Blu!!! I loved your summary post here.

I also think my H falls into the Mr. Nice Guy category. Much of what you said about your H resonates with my husband's actions, too, at least for the majority of the time I knew him. I totally know where you're coming from about the alien, too.

My H definitely blames me for his unhappiness. I don't know if he is just wayward, or if it's a MLC, or what, but I suppose it doesn't really matter all that much. He's doing his own thing and I'm here trying to figure out how to do mine. Unfortunately, he's so far away that he may well never see me starting to move on.

Thank you for the reminder that we LBSs need to learn how to love and care for ourselves first.