I had a great weekend, w noticed some changes and thanked me for a great weekend. I stayed positive, she even waited up for me to come home from work. I messed up this morning the "ask nothing rule". I was annoyed by s being on the phone today constantly I asked her what she up too? She replied, why are you asking me that, that behaviour is controlling. And then continued on by saying , though she sees changes, this behaviour has been going on for years. I noticed it, I see how as an adult this can be controlling---so I have to fight the urge to not ask.And I apologised, and mentally reminded myself (not be insecure).
Anyone still wear their ring, when your spouse doesn't,i have tried, but I keep putting it back on.