I'm there with you cbtdad. Why do we not trust, because they have not shown remorse, they have not tried to build the trust.
If we took emotion out of it, it would mean that we would trust them regardless of what they do, where they go, whom they speak to, or what they say. But then how do we justify being distant with them? and how do we justify the stopping of cake-eating?
We are pushing them away by not trusting them, I don;t think that I have the ability to just close my eyes and accept whats happening around me. I don't.
Only problem is that i guess that that is where we need to get to. Trust without questioning and then make decisions based on their actions, without emotions.
As if this situation wasn't hard enough.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
