Frankly I think all that anger and lashing out has guilt at it's core. It's like the tell themselves this story about how they are the victim in all this, they poke and poke to get a reaction out of the LBS. When we refuse to react as expected, instead we speak softly and rationally, it spins them even more. How can a delusion persist when we refuse to play the part they have written for us?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
