My first post - please be nice.

[collin]

i don't know what to do, she texted asking me if I wanted to go to the hospital to visit someone.

me - no thanks

her - you don't want to see [this person]

i didn't reply right away...then

her - if you're mad at me that's fine, you've been an a--hole lately anyway...but despite all the f---ed sh-t you've done or do i try to do for you. so sit over there in self pity.

me - i'm sorry you feel i've been an a--hole. i've tried to be cordial to you. i am thankful for what you do.

her - OK.

I admit, i have been quiet around her. but i don't necessarily think i've been an a--hole. i don't know what to say or do anymore...