Ok. So my next door neighbor gave me some insight he heard last night from my W. My W told his W and another friend of ours that she's confused at the moment and not sure what she wants. But that the biggest thing that has developed is that she has felt trapped and smothered. My controlling ways of course. That me not trusting her. Constantly checking up on her, snooping, checking phone bill, asking who is who, etc etc has work her down So she is right. I haven't trusted her for a while. I was beginning to after the A the last time but a lot 6 months ago another issue popped up that got me in distrust mode again I realize if I can't trust her we have no R anyways Oh well back to square one I guess
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
