Well yesterday wife texted me that should meet me after my daughter's soccer game at my house. Text was meant for OM, I had fun with it and just texted back. you got the wrong dude.
Was working last night and got another text from wife that the kids will be staying at her parents for a sleepover. which is fine. It's her days with the kids. She hasn't been spending much time with them I have noticed on her days. She has been way too busy with ohter things, including OM. When I got home from work last night, at midnight. Surprise surprise, she didn't come home all night. That was expected though.
Talked with my soon to be XSIL. Her and I shared details of the family and whats going on. We agreed not to tell WW that we are talking. Not that it matters much to me, but it was nice because we are both on the same page it seems about the situation. Funny she mentioned that the WW noticed I had lost alot of weight and that the kids mention to her how much more time daddy spends playing with them. So it is true, if you make changes the WW will notice, she won't tell you though. Not that it makes a difference in her actions still these days, just nice to know that she is seeing differences in me.
WW goes to the L monday morning to start drafting the seperation agreement. Hoping it gets done soon, I need to get out of this circus of hers. It truly is draining living in this situation. Gonna get moving and go to the gym today before work. find it really is helpful to burn off some energy.
Went out friday night with a couple people form my past, from work and reconnected. it was nice to see them and catch up. both women used to work with me and one is goign through a seperation right now, that is why we all got together was to talk and vent etc. it was good to get out for a while and not worry about whats happening in my life.
Me 40 W 35 Kids 2 S6 D3 T 10 yrs M 8yrs BD 11Mar16
