No I'm not dream. I told her to enjoy herself. She called me when she got home and I said that I wanted to spend the day by myself and that she is free to pick up our S if she wanted to spend it with him.

It's now 8pm and she said earlier that she will probably be home around midnight. This means that she will not see her son on her bday. It might be pursuing by asking if she's gonna be home, but I did not want to assume.

She's out with who knows and I am getting our son done and putting him to bed.

I also think that locking her out of the MBR is to protect myself. I want to take emotion out of it. Was that not the right way to do it?

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.