Hi blue, I'm sorry to see you here, but you are in the right place... Listen to Sandi, she is one of the respected vets here and I'll help you stay the course... Right now my advice to you would be don't get into relationship talks with your WW, trust me when I say it takes time to know how to handle them...
There are lots of people willing to listen here, so spew your questions and anger here, not to your W.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized