Thanks for the support sadhub. I know I need to GAL and go against the grain. She sure is carrying on with her life. She came to the house yesterday afternoon and said her and a group of friends from the rescue she's helping out with were going out. She left yesterday afternoon and I didn't hear anything all night. I stayed up until about 1am for her to make sure she made it back safe. Typically I would text her or call her. But I know that part of detaching is letting her do her thing. I didn't sleep worth a dern last night. Everytime I woke up she wasn't there. Finally when I was getting ready for church she texted:

Sorry meant to text you last night and tell you I wasn't coming home but I passed out sitting up.

I didn't text back. I didn't have anything to say what wouldn't be condescending. Return from church and she's still not there. She's got to come to the house some time. I don't know what I'm going to say. I really have nothing nice to say. She wants to take some of our dogs with her when she moves out. I don't know if I trust her to take care of them.

Anyways, 9 more days until reality hits her. In 9 days there won't be any going out all night and staying gone all day. I think this is the first day where I've been angry. I guess anger is part of the process. Only one of many emotions to experience as part of this process.


M:36 W:31 D:12
M: 8/9/10
ILYBNILWY/"want space": 2/14-ish/16
W moved out 5/24/16.