I will have intention to get busy and then H has similiar idea. Like yesterday w/ yard work. Ended up taking a walk first, then came back to do yard work while he mowed. Ive got mindset that stepping back (tough for me at moment) is what he wants/will make worse. Know wrong tho. Since he is putting energy outside our MR w/ others and OW I feel need to take advantage of time together. Working on that.
During most wk nights we have dinner/watch couple shows. I excuse self early at times/say have headache and watch tv upstairs by self. Wkends we do own thing til 2 so I'm trying to be outside/delay available when he comes down (initiated by H). I want to stay comitted and handle things well but
Questions: 1) It's ok to spend some time together right? 2) Why is he delaying telling me he wants to be done? Know he fears aftermath so that's prob why. Should this give me any hope? Fear that since H shared his feelings to friend and has support that the outcome he seeks won't change. 3) H gives me somewhat of heads up when going out to eat/running etc. and when coming home..guess something? I have been doing the same is that ok? 4) I have been picking and choosing responding to his msgs. I will respond w/ "ok" and "have fun." ? 4) Will feelings for his crush fade? 5) We have talked briefly about small projects need to do like mulching etc. is that ok? One big project he mentioned but think bc he was telling parents.
